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Getting Comfy with YOU

Pin It Share on Tumblr   “The worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with oneself.”  Mark Twain Ultimately in life we are alone most of the time. Surrounded by others, we are still at one with our thoughts and feelings. No one else “completes” us, like we do to ourselves. We carry our insecurities [...]

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Why Meanness?

Pin It Share on Tumblr Do you spend the majority of your day dodging and combating snipes, snide remarks, nasty comments, put-downs, one-ups, and disses? They could be directed at you or at others.  The world is a treacherous war zone of unhappiness and verbal abuse. People have become opportunistic stalkers to catch each other [...]

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The Ultimate Job Interview: Are You Qualified to Be You?

Pin It Share on Tumblr Looking for a change? Want greener pastures? Is it time to move up? Is it time to diversify?  Need validation or condemnation? Maybe it’s time to make way for job opening. Open up the position of being you and interview yourself for the job!  This ridiculous idea has merit, since [...]

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Asking for Acceptance

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Changing Perspective

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Give In To Happiness

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Melt Down or Chill Out?

Pin It Share on Tumblr You may recognize the personal moment when you’re in a mood.  And this mood can’t be solved with a smile or a joke or a roll in the hay.   You need to turn off your sound track and just relax. You feel over-loaded and like your brain’s hard drive is [...]

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A Forgotten Kindness

Pin It Share on Tumblr I once knew a quiet, fragile, shy girl who cared for everyone and everything. She helped anyone in need, desperately trying to fit in, to feel love and sense belonging. If you knew her you would certainly call her one of the kindest people you had ever met. She was [...]

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Learning From Listening or Listen to Learn

Pin It Share on Tumblr Most of us tend to hope that in order to learn, we just have to listen and the information will automatically be transferred into our long term memories forever and ever. Two seconds later we may be able to spew back the “gems” we have picked up, but what happens [...]

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Time to Rescue Yourself

Pin It Share on Tumblr A lot of us have grown up with the idea of having someone come to our rescue, whether it is  a character on a white horse or in the form of a kiss that wakens us, we have a deep routed rescue fantasy or expectation.  I’m all for the fantasy [...]

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